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English Teacher 2
05/11/2007 10:48:09 / Other
Hi!everybody,I am come back^^!
Refer to the invition I still had been exciting till now.It really a freely and comfortable conversation.We were all enjoy it.But before it there were something displeasure happened.
previously I wanted to invite Leigh on the early afternoon not only just had a dinner but had something fun with us such as singing（my home has good acoustics）see a wonderful film or playing card ………… I also told him I will call him that afternoon and let him wait for my call.but when the day came I called him ,he said he had to go to HanKou and didn't come until 5:00 pm.Heard that I was a litte disappoint and think maybe he just forget our date.Because of that I also should put off the time and call each friend of mine .It was really made me a little annoyed.The whole arrangment had to be changed.
After 3:00pm my friends came to my home in succession .I told them Leigh will come a little late we can get something fun first ,at that time my mum was began to prepare the dinner （she is also very want to know how is Leigh look like,hehe)During that time we sang lots of songs and had a pretty good time (we all good at singing ^^)
Time past so fast I watch the clock it's 6:00pm but Leigh hadn't come then.At that time I felt a lttle angry and depressed( my mother was very tired for cooking I didn't want to make her disappoint).
several minutes later Leigh came finally.I was not felt so exciting as before .There were only 3 hours left.Because he late for our appointment the first impression was not so good .Maybe he also found me a little annoyed with him ,he explain for his lating(he join a wedding party ,he can't leave before the end of the wedding and the traffic was also terrible ).I didn't want to blame him whatever he came at last.I just want everyone enjoy the rest time.So I try to understand him(maybe we just misunderstand to each other .the cultures are so different .Foreigner like arrange themself in detail in a day ,they can do many different things step by step.If someone ask you for dinner it just a dinner not with other things but it's so different in china the chinese don't want to do too many things in ther weekend just have a relax if they have appiontment in the afternoon they will release the time and won't date others during that time)
I never realize that knowing the culture's difference was so important .If I had expressed my thouht more clearly the misunderstanding won't happend .I should remember that and don't make the same mistake next time.
Of course ,at last I forgot anything unpleasant just enjoyed the rest of the time with him……………
Do you want to know more about the conversation and Leigh?
Just wait and wait I will tell you so on ……………………
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